Trick or Treat?

sweetsOver the past year, I’ve been running ‘sweet swaps’ for our LotRO kinship. It involves members of the kin giving me their real life details (name/address) and then me doing some shuffling to enable everyone to send and receive a goody bag. Think Secret Santa, but outside of Xmas.

In fact, it did actually start last Christmas with a secret Santa sweet swap. I told kin members the idea was to keep the entire thing to around £5 commitment, but to include mailing costs in that. We have members across Europe and Scandinavia and probably even further afield, but so far the swaps have been limited to Europe and Scandinavia. For the first time I tried very hard to match up every non-UK person with a UK sweet swap and the idea was always to try and find something unique to your area, if at all possible. I honestly can’t remember what I sent, but I do remember the ‘squee’ of joy when a bag of sweeties from the South of England arrived! A simple gesture, bringing happiness, and spread throughout those taking part – like a little club.

It was pretty successful, so we did a chocolate swap the following Easter. Following the same rules, but with a few more people trickling in and solely focused in on chocolate this time!

I meant to do a summer one, we had people requesting all manners of weird swaps (including my nemesis: Cheese!), but due to laziness and a kin meet-up, I’ve left it till now. Last year we followed the ‘Christian’ festival calendar, so this year we’re starting with Hallowe’en. While we may not celebrate it as much as America does, we still have cool sweets and chocolate to mark the date. Not sure everyone in the kin does, but hey, it’s also a way to spread cultural differences and note them. I think I may include some cinder toffee in the bag I send out also, and a note about Guy Fawkes.

I’d definitely recommend it to anyone interested in a fun little sideline for their guilds. It’s really not that hard, other than to gather addresses. I simply put names on paper and literally draw them from a bag. Though, we have an uneven number of participants this time, so (as Spinks might put it), I’m changing my algorithm and will create a ‘circle’ of giving where A gives to B gives to C gives to A, etc. Then I simply send everyone a forum mail with the name and address they’re sending to and a deadline date to get their sweets out.

Try it. For very little work, it gives a lot of pleasure. It’s probably my biggest contribution to the kin to date. But.. not sure what I’ll do after Hallowe’en, so all suggestions gratefully received!

7 thoughts on “Trick or Treat?

  1. It’s been terrifically successful, Arb is too modest 🙂 I love how people post screenshots of unpacking their newly arrived goodies. And one of the key things is that the amount of money you spend on the sweets etc is restricted so everyone knows what is expected before they sign up.

    What do you do if someone doesn’t get a parcel, do you have reserves on standby?

  2. I simply HATE mandatory trade-gifts-circles around Christmas for instance at work, in organizations etc. It feels constructed and just like a burden and I always end up giving some crap I wouldn’t like myself and for sure know that no one else likes either, just because I “have to” and suck at coming up with a good idea (and I’m not goblinish enough to just ignore the social nonsense). So first I cringed at this idea to be honest. But since you restrict it to candy and keep down the cost I think it sounds OK or even as a little bit of fun. Considering the mailing costs these days I can’t imagine that you can buy very much of candies if you’re sending it cross-Europe though. Most of the stated sum would go to stamps…

  3. Funny enough this activity is called “wichteln” where I live, which would translate into something like “imp-ing” or “gnome-ing”, haha!! I always ended up utterly disappointed over this back in school (I just make the best prezzies myself, what can I say), but I think it’s big fun ingame, sending each other something small from some unknown alt! a nice way to spice up the long wait until xmas (or cataclysm?)! =)

  4. Speaking as a giver and a recipient of Arbs various swaps, it is fun and I still mean to post a screenshot of the beautifically boxed chocolate I got at Easter.

    It is straightforward and totally non-mandatory – just for those who enjoy sending and receiving deliciousness in the post! Also, for those that are inclined that way, it is yet another way of seeing the people behind those little pixels running around on our computer screens.

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